Life is not the same for everyone. For some, things come easily, and they seem to get what they want with little effort. For others, achieving the same goals might take double the work. It’s easy to feel like life is unfair in such moments. Feeling envious or frustrated is natural, and sometimes there’s no logical explanation for why things are the way they are. The truth is, it’s nobody’s fault if someone has a comfortable life or doesn’t need to work as hard. Similarly, it’s no one’s fault if another person faces more challenges. We are all shaped by different circumstances, but what we can control is how we respond.
What truly matters is giving our best in whatever we take on and continuing to grow in our own lives. As we grow, we must remember that it’s just as important to support those around us, helping them along their journey as well. One day, we’ll all reach our own version of success. A key part of making this journey more positive and meaningful is through appreciation. Now, I’m not suggesting we should compliment people mindlessly or become people pleasers. Instead, we should learn to recognize and appreciate the little things around us. This shift in mindset helps us focus on the good, both in our own lives and in the lives of others.
Isn’t it uplifting to see people happy and content with what they have? Rather than letting jealousy sneak in, we can choose to celebrate their achievements and find joy in their happiness. In doing so, we begin to appreciate everything around us more fully. When we replace envy with appreciation, we open ourselves up to a more positive and fulfilling outlook on life. It doesn’t change our circumstances overnight, but it transforms the way we see the world—and that can make all the difference.
About the Author
Mathurabargavee is working as a data engineer at Fractal Analytics. However, beyond the realm of data, she is passionate about exploring the intricacies of human experiences. In her writing, she delves into profound topics such as the conflict between mind and body, the quest for self-love, and the pervasive social stigmas we encounter in life. By shedding light on these often overlooked issues, she aims to ignite meaningful conversations and inspire positive change. Her mission is to empower individuals to embrace their inner journey, fostering greater self- awareness and acceptance along the way. Together, let's courageously navigate the complexities of the mind and body, fostering compassion every step of the way.