Communicating effectively with children is crucial for building relationships, encouraging socially accepted good behaviors, and helping them develop their emotional intelligence. Here are 4 effective ways to communicate with a child:
Step 1: Get Down to Their Level
Physically lowering yourself to the child's level and maintaining straight eye to eye which helps you connect with them better. It shows that you're willing to enter their world and communicate on their terms. This simple act can help the child feel more comfortable and secure.
Step 2: Use Simple and Precise Language
Children's vocabulary and understanding are still developing, so it's essential to use simple and clear language when communicating with them. Ensure a common language is identified and agreed upon, get consent to listening and use simple vocabulary and sentence.
Step 3: Listen Actively and Respond with Empathy
Active listening is critical when communicating with children. Give them your undivided attention which means no phone, and show that you're interested in what they have to say. Responding with empathy and understanding, helps the child feel heard and understood.
Step 4: Validate Their Feelings and Offer Guidance
Children often struggle to regulate their emotions and may need guidance on how to manage and express their feelings. Shout out scream is their in ability to express. Offer guidance on how to manage their feelings in a healthy and constructive way. This helps the child develop emotional intelligence and builds trust in your relationship.
By following these 4 steps, you can communicate effectively with children and build strong, positive relationships with them.
About the Author
Thanga Bourna is a Virtual Relationship Manager at HDFC Bank, passionate about contemporary psychology and its applications in understanding human behavior and enhancing client relationships.